Birthday Video Gift Guide: What to Ask People to Record

A birthday video gift works best when contributors know what to say. If you only ask for "a birthday message", most people will record the same short greeting. Helpful prompts make the final video more personal.

Ask for a favorite memory

This often brings out stories the recipient may have forgotten. Ask contributors to include a few details, such as where they were, what happened, and why they still remember it.

Ask what they admire about the person

"What do you admire about them?" gives people a starting point for a sincere message without making it feel formal.

Ask for a wish for the year ahead

This works especially well for milestone birthdays. Friends and family can share what they hope the coming year will bring, or suggest something they would like to do together.

Compliments mean more when they are specific.

Mix funny and heartfelt clips

Invite some people to tell funny stories and others to share what the birthday person means to them. The mix gives the video room for both laughter and quieter moments.

Keep your invitation short

Put the essentials in the first few lines of your invitation:

• Give a clear deadline for sending a clip

• Suggest how long the message should be

• Include one question or prompt to answer

People are more likely to take part when they can quickly see what you need.

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